“ LOTS of lube from the jump and add more maybe even if you don’t think you need it,” said one respondent. Most people mentioned the importance of using plenty of lube before and during anal sex.
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We also asked for your tips on how to prevent pain during anal sex. Our favorite response was from the person who said, “Here, let me show you.” Preventing pain “Sometimes a little pain leads to great pleasure.” “I would say that pain during sex can be great-heightening all the sensations-if you trust your partner.” “A painful erotic distraction that allows the pleasure senses to grow in the background for an epic climax.” Then the relief of him cumming and lubricating my butt with his hot load.” “A mixture of pain and pleasure, where the pain heightens the degree of pleasure/relief experienced.” Other notable responses to what you enjoy from pain during sex include: Similar good feeling but exponentially better.” When you first work out, your muscles hurt because they’re being stretched, but you feel good. “It hurts because it’s a muscle being stretched. One person described it as “like getting a tattoo: It hurts, but you know you still love it.” Another person compared it to popping a painful pimple: “The first few seconds can sting, but the sense of relief and endorphins rush immediately afterwards floods out the momentary ‘pain.’” A few other people compared it to the pain you experience when working out. We asked how people would explain pleasurable pain during anal sex to someone who has never felt it before.
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Most people (96%) reported that they have anal sex (or have had anal sex in the past). Other sexual orientations reported were bisexual (9%), straight/heterosexual (8%), asexual (1%), and “other” (mostly pansexual and queer). Cis-women, trans men, trans women, genderqueer people, gender non-conforming, gender non-binary and genderfluid people also took the survey.Ībout 80% of people identified as gay/homosexual. “Pain can be enjoyable, if your partner knows how to keep it at the right level.” –Survey respondent Who participated?Ī total of 412 people took the survey. (In other words, the sample isn’t representative of our entire community or San Francisco.) The 412 people who took the survey likely felt they had something to say about pain and sex. We shared this 15-question anonymous survey with our social media followers, on our website and in our newsletters-to reach a convenience sample of people connected to San Francisco AIDS Foundation. “I had a sub who liked rough anal sex and that didn’t want me to use a lot of lube.” –Survey respondent About the pain & anal sex surveyįirst, a few words about the survey.
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I can’t wait to fill you up with a hot-off-the-press load of info about what makes our community tick when it comes to pain between the sheets. We heard you loud and clear: Our community survey got hot and heavy last month with a variety of responses to our questions about pain and anal sex.
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Do you like getting jackhammered till your hole is raw? Do you take pleasure in your partner’s pain-turned on by their moans during rough sex?